Hey there! It’s Wednesday and you know what that means! It’s another Style Wise Conversation and we love this weeks question. The thing we love most about style is that it’s something you can choose for yourself. If you want your style to say something specific about you, you can determine what that is by what you wear! How cool is that?! Let’s chat about it friends.
What do you want your style to say about you?
J | The first word that comes to mind for me is confident.
L | I was going to say that too!
J | I’ve always wanted to express that I’m confident by dressing in a way that expresses that I’m confident. I don’t think it’s all about insecurity, but when something feels off to me about my outfit I think about it. It’s not something that someone else would necessarily notice but but it’s something I notice.
L | I think also being comfortable in what you’re wearing allows you to feel more confident as well. There are times when I’m wearing dresses or a low shirt and I’m concerned about whether or not my bra and underwear are showing. I can’t really feel like I’m rocking it if I’m too worried about something else.
J | I agree, I think it’s about comfort and being entirely put together even down to what we wear under it.
L | If you’re wearing something at all that makes you worried about anything, you’re going to be thinking about it all day and you can’t focus on being confident in it. Maybe it’s different for other people, but for me that’s how it is. I have to be fully feelin’ myself to feel confident in something.
J | I think it goes along with our whole message in style. That we want women to feel empowered and to love themselves because we can’t love other people until we really love ourselves. This isn’t to say I haven’t had problems with insecurity, but to me it’s different now. I’m focused on putting myself together in a way that’s pleasing to me and that’s my most authentic self.
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J | Put together is something we’ve said a lot.
L | I also want my style to say that I’m fun.
J | I was literally just willing that to come out of your mouth lol. Because I want that too, I want to be fun.
L | I want people to think I’m cooler than I am.
J | I want to BE cooler than I am.
L | That’s the thing, I feel so playful and fun when I’m wearing something bright and fun. If you style something in a unique way too, that’s another way to show off your more playful side. You putting your own spin on things can be interesting to people.
J | Interesting is another thing I want my style to say about me. I like my style to not be exactly the norm or what’s on trend.
J | This is all so good to think about. We want to be playful, we want to be confident. I also want to look effortless at the same time, like it hasn’t taken a lot of time to put together. That’s the hard thing though because you want credit for putting an outfit together, but then you also want to look like you just walked out the door looking fashionable and chic. I want to look chic. I feel like I’ve always been held back from shopping that way because we live in the Midwest and people don’t look chic.
L | I think we’ve always had the idea that we can’t dress a certain way because of where we live. We’re just putting ourselves in a limiting box of how we can dress. You can wear what you want to wear wherever you are! Just rock it girl!
J | I feel like that’s where we’re growing. I want my style to say that I’m not afraid of being myself…
L | And not afraid to dress the way we want to dress.
This was such a fun conversation friends! Tell us what you want your style to say about you. There are so many opportunities when it comes to style. If you want your style to say something specific about you, then dress that way friend!